Things have been pretty weird since I moved to this school to be with The Geek. On one hand, I am happier than I have ever been. What could be better than laying with your head on your guys shoulder after you’ve had a bad day, just letting him pamper and cuddle you? On the other hand…it makes any problems we may have had before so much bigger.
We have never seen each other every day on a consistent basis like this. and don’t get me wrong, it’s incredible, but it’s hard! All the little things we’ve been able to not show each other (I really need a lot of physical attention, ie, cuddling, kissing, holding hands, he needs quiet time, ie, me not bugging him when he’s trying to work-which is all the time-and guy time, to play Halo or whatever his heart desires) When we saw each other only a little, the other person was our sole focus…in a word, we were obsessed. I always had his full attention, and he never cared about work or getting “important things” done, because I was there, and he wanted me.
Wellllll….I’ve been here for 6 weeks. I’m here all the time. All he has to do is pick up the phone and call me. Kind of changes the glamour of dating. All I have to do is pick up the phone and call him. Honestly, I don’t always want to. I’ve never had a problem getting girl time and boyfriend time in before, because the boyfriend wasn’t around. It was easy…now it’s a little more difficult.
It has made for some frustrated times, some long talks about what we need to do to get into the rhythm of things, and on my side, and few tears.
Yay us…we’re finally in a normal relationship. We’ve stopped fighting, because we see each other every day, and we get the chance daily to show each other how much we love each other. It’s been replaced with something else tho..a minor amount of tenseness as we figure out exactly where the other person belongs in our daily life.
It honestly is wonderful, but why is it so hard to adjust?