Dating A Geek

Check this out:

http://artpad.art.com/artpad/painter/

I got a little email the other day telling me someone had painted me something on artpad. Now, I’m not gonna show you what The Geek painted for me, :P, but you should play around with it and try your own.

Have fun!

Oh my gosh. I have the best excuse for not updating for such a long time.

Maybe some of you can identify with this!

I changed the theme to my site, and the “log in admin” button dissappeared! I scrolled up and down, side to side, and it was nowhere to be found. So..I gave up for awhile, until it occurred to me to ask the geek how to log in. (I figured that I am a pretty smart person and could find it on my own, so pride kept me from asking him for a long time. ) He typed in the url, with a /admin after it, and there it was.Yeah. I mean…why don’t they just have the button on the side on every theme? Seriously.

Anyway!

The Geek is taking me on a very special date for my birthday. Our school is holding JS, a formal banquet for juniors and seniors..hence the name…and he bought my ticket so that we get to go! I’m so excited, I’ve never been to anything formal before, and it’s on my birthday, and it’ll just be a really big day.

I would tell you all what my gorgeous, amazing, stunning dress looks like BUT then The Geek would know.

And I want him to be surprised!

It’s been about a month since I’ve written, honestly because there was nothing new to write about. It stayed pretty much the same for awhile, getting used to being with each other, giving each other “me” time, and all that stuff.

It has calmed down a lot, and I am feeling a lot better about being here. I’m really glad I made the choice to come here! After spending the evening with my geek I walked back into my room smiling, and just realizing how much I love him…I love all the silly little things he does to make me smile…

..Although he seemed to be working overtime at it a couple times tonight.  *smiles*  He offered to buy me a hairdryer! lol A HAIRDRYER! I’ve been borrowing my roomate’s and decided to finally get one of my own, I picked out one that was decent, and as we were walking away, I looked at a more expensive one and made the comment that it was a much better dryer than the one I was buying. He instantly offered to buy it for me. He held out his hands and said “well, I don’t have the money on me but I’ll pay you back when I get to school!”. It was cute ok? And then the conversation went something like this:

“Um, save your money and spoil me with the better things when we get married ok?”

“No I like spoiling you now”

“Yeah but I’ll feel better about it later in life *laughs*. I know! You can save it and spoil our DAUGHTERS. I always wanted my Daddy to spoil me. You can take them out for birthday dinners and stuff with that money!”

“Jessi-”

“And you can spoil the grandkids too!”

“Jessi give me money back!”

 In the course of 5 minutes I had planned what to do with his future salary.

hehe!

Things have been pretty weird since I moved to this school to be with The Geek. On one hand, I am happier than I have ever been. What could be better than laying with your head on your guys shoulder after you’ve had a bad day, just letting him pamper and cuddle you? On the other hand…it makes any problems we may have had before so much bigger.

We have never seen each other every day on a consistent basis like this. and don’t get me wrong, it’s incredible, but it’s hard! All the little things we’ve been able to not show each other (I really need a lot of physical attention, ie, cuddling, kissing, holding hands, he needs quiet time, ie, me not bugging him when he’s trying to work-which is all the time-and guy time, to play Halo or whatever his heart desires) When we saw each other only a little, the other person was our sole focus…in a word, we were obsessed. I always had his full attention, and he never cared about work or getting “important things” done, because I was there, and he wanted me.

Wellllll….I’ve been here for 6 weeks. I’m here all the time. All he has to do is pick up the phone and call me. Kind of changes the glamour of dating. All I have to do is pick up the phone and call him. Honestly, I don’t always want to. I’ve never had a problem getting girl time and boyfriend time in before, because the boyfriend wasn’t around. It was easy…now it’s a little more difficult.

It has made for some frustrated times, some long talks about what we need to do to get into the rhythm of things, and on my side, and few tears.

Yay us…we’re finally in a normal relationship. We’ve stopped fighting, because we see each other every day, and we get the chance daily to show each other how much we love each other. It’s been replaced with something else tho..a minor amount of tenseness as we figure out exactly where the other person belongs in our daily life.

It honestly is wonderful, but why is it so hard to adjust? 

Does anybody else sometimes honestly hate college? I do. :p Sooo much homework.

Story time.

The school I’m going to was putting on My Fair Lady as a play. If you’ve seen the movie, you’ll understand why I was so excited to go see it! Until…Thursday came, and TG didn’t want to go see the play…Friday came and he opted for iceskating…one o’clock AM Saturday rolled around and the tickets were sold out. Didn’t matter anyway, because he still didn’t want to go, and I didn’t want to go without him. I went to bed a little mad (ok a lot mad, because he KNEW I wanted to go and he wouldn’t go!)

Yesterday, I was awakened by a loud pounding at my window. I grumpily opened the door to my hall, and there TG was, standing outside with a big smile on his face. 

“Jessi, I got tickets to the play!”

“huh?”

“I texted you about it last night but you were already sleeping…”

“That’s great, uhhh…what time is it?”

Ok, so I was really excited, once I finally woke up! I had an hour to look halfway decent, and then meet him at the theater. But before I jumped in the shower, I saw this ad on our school’s classified’s list: “Looking for 2 tickets to My Fair Lady from someone that can’t go so that I can have nice date with my fair lady.”

Isn’t that sweet?

He thinks of the best dates. 

I love dating a geek..I’m sure no one else would have thought about that :p

Ahhh…the Steelers won! What an awesome game. The geek was cheering for the Arizona while I rooted for the Steelers, we both held our breath and clenched our fists in the last few minutes of the game. If you watched the game, then you saw how CLOSE it was! 

After the game we watched The Office, something my geek got me into. It’s a great show to watch with someone you’re really close to… it creates a lot of inside jokes and laughs. (How big is your boss’s ipod? SEE?) We laughed and held onto each other nearly the entire hour. Of course, after the show we joked about different Ipod’s and all the ways the casts roasted each other. It was the best episode ever! If you haven’t seen it, go watch it!

Oh! The surprise. Still hasn’t given it to me…How long do you think that I’ll have to wait? I’m a pretty impatient girl! I’m pretty sure it’s an impressive surprise, since he’s super excited about it, and keeps teasing me about what it could be. (Think proposal, one night he showed me rings, and said that he wanted to do something extra special, so he took me on a nice date, paid for the meal, held my hand and looked me in the eyes the entire time…you know…in the way that says something is coming…and then guess what? NOTHING! He thought it was hilarious. I didn’t.) So….obviously, I’m trying not to think about it since I know how cruel he can be, but I do hope that whatever it is, he gives it to me soon! 

I can’t wait!

I am the happiest girl in the world. My geek is such a wonderful blessing in my life. I learn so much from this man every day!

I have a surprise from him to look forward to right now…I wait every day to see if he’ll give it to me.

I have transferred to the school that he attends, so that we can be together. (Welll…not JUST that reason, but you know… :P) Its so neat to see him every day…

But I’ve noticed something odd!

Now that we’re together all the time, we never do anything “geeky”. Why is it that when we were long distance, all he talked about was video games and how to accomplish this level, or grab this acheivement. He rarely talks about that anymore! We do the cutesy stuff I’ve always wanted, going out to dinner, trying new things, talking about cool dates like clay shooting and ice skating, playing settlers together..its just so much fun! I love it, and I love him. PLus, without all the miscommunication that long distance provided, we rarely fight

Anyway, that’s the update. The geek has made me promise to update nearly every day till he gives me my surprise…whatever that may be. So you will be hearing from me, and you will all find out what that surprise is right along with me!

My geek is coming to visit me, traveling all the way from his state so that he can visit me in the state my school is in. How exciting is that? Very very very!

I’d like to do something for him that will be fun for him, but I’d like to avoid video games…at all costs. Although, he does things for me that thrill my girlie heart, such as buy me jewelry for sweetest day, take me out to dinner just because he knows I like to be spoiled, and drive 4 hours to visit me, then 3 more hours to go up north so that he can hang out with my family, and then drive another 4 hours the next day to go back to school. I just might have to take that all into account and settle in for a couple hours of game time.

What would be the best thing to do for him people? He’l be putting up with 4 girls this weekend…I need to do something great for HIM!

Im kind of in love. With Smash Brothers. Yeah.

I like the damage meter in the game. When you hit an opponent, the “damage meter” goes up. The higher the percentage at the bottom of the screen (where the damage meter is located) gets, the farther the person or character flies when you hit him. It makes it so much fun! There are lots of different stages in the game, lots of battlefields, tons of options, and yeah…it’s just fun!

So…I recommend it, and I know, I’m behind, probably all of you have played this already. Grrr..

I’m still excited about it!Super Smash Brothers is what most people play now…it’s depicted in the image above

Have fun guys!

Ok, ok, I admit, i am horrible about updating. I’m taking 20 credits tho, and playing volleyball and swimming! You would probably forget too

I spent the last 5 days with my wonderful geek. We had a pizza date, went to the park, visited the local candy store 3 times, took walks to the back of the campus, cuddled under “our” tree, and discussed walking all around the lake, however, we decided against that, as walking around the lake on his campus is considered the engagement walk. (hehe) 

I think we stayed away from computers, games, and anything else that would interrupt our together time, and it was WONDERFUL! However…I am glad to be back at my school with my Macbook and my all time favorite game of Super Monkey Ball.

I’ll update again soon. Later guys!